Monday, July 1, 2019

THE FINAL WORD on same-sex marriage (and everything else for that matter)

Same-sex marriage is an open-ended, continual debate. The consensus on this debate leans heavily on personal interpretation of marriage. Some strongly believe a person should be free to marry a person of their same gender.

The condition of your heart is evident in your choices
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This has also brought up debates on the subjects of marriage, who to love, family, and adoption issues because once the deception door was opened, any and everything becomes debatable, questionable and alterable rather than trusting the Creator who designed and created it. Once we alter the original design, the ramifications begin to take an altered cause and effect course. Things get messy, complicated and uneasy- which was not the intended design. Remember, what deceived Eve in the perfect Garden is still very much at work and we can see the ramifications of that deception are sill in play today.


Most secular debates on the topic of same sex marriage ignore what's spelled out clearly in God's written Word.
God created marriage for very important reasons.
Here is a good bit of info on what does the Bible says about homosexuality.
God's Word is pretty clear about a man lying with a man and/or a woman lying with a woman-they are an abomination.
Here are other words to understand what is an 'abomination'.

Does God approve of same-sex marriage?

The debate on marriage -
God created marriage for the purpose of a man and a woman uniting for the purpose of procreating within a loving relationship. Marriage is also meant to mimic the loving-for-life relationship God desires to have with each of us. And the command to go forth and multiply, which is to procreate.
It's not biologically possible for two men or two women to procreate.

The debate on who to love-
Yes, we are to love our neighbor, and even our enemy. Love is very multi-faceted and wide ranging. Perhaps getting the true grasp of the depth of genuine love is something we ought to try to understand more in depth. True, genuine love is grand between two people who want to share their lives together as one. The heart has the capacity for loving strongly and deeply but there are different kinds of loves we can have for different people in our lives. Certainly it's not feasible to marry every person we love and care for. The special bonding love between a husband and wife is just one kind of love. The sacred union of marriage is reserved for a one man and one woman, united as one unit in the sight of God.

The debate on the definition of family-
In a family, the father ( male) and the mother (female) unite to have children who are the created equally of the union of both. Together they share in raising their off-spring is the designed intention of a traditional family. When we alter the traditional family in any way, the children and the family are going to lack something vital and problems are definitely going to become more and more evident with each generation of children.

Professionals have stated the mental health and emotions of children being raised in same-sex marriages are not negatively affected. Politicians are giving the 'thumb's up' for same-sex marriages to be given equal legal footing as traditional marriages are causes untold changes at every level of society. The debate continues.

Here's what one person shares about being raised in a same-sex marriage.


Do the professionals or politicians know what's better than the Creator of love, marriage, family, and children?


The debate on sin-
This debate is also altered with personal interpretation on the definition of sin.
Altering God's Word to fit a person's desire to continue sinning as he wishes is very personal.
The first couple believed a BIG lie and THAT LIE is still perpetuated because the lie satisfies the desire to satisfy the desires of the flesh which feel good and perpetrate evil rather than obey God.
Fulfilling the desires of the flesh make us feel good. And who doesn't want to feel good? But there is much more to us that we don't see which is more important.

When we do what is in direct opposition to God's Word for us, there is a price we are going to ultimately suffer. God is very patiently waiting for us to get enough of suffering at our own expense and wake up and see our mistakes. We can read of those who went against His Word and the consequences they suffered from doing so. A child is warned to not play in the road so they won't get hurt. But if that child's heart is set on playing in the road, they place them self directly in line to be harmed.


Man is too proud to stay within the boundaries set for his safety and good.
because
he'd rather make his rules he thinks are better than God's protection and goodness,
and
he'd rather stubbornly continue sinning no matter the cost he's going to endure.

 
       
God created mankind for a divine purpose and God's purposes have a divine order. Any tampering or altering or deviation of what God created will bring disastrous conclusions.


The remodeling of family and marriage by Man changes hearts and souls.
This agenda is not pleasing to God and it's dangerous for everyone.
The Enemy is pleased when we sin
Sin is  hurting and damaging to the sinner, not God.

Purpose for marriage.


Joining one man to one woman- is God's design
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God knows best what's best for you. Disobedient against God sets into motion things not ideally best to you in the long run. God is loving and patient and won't violate your will, but His grace and mercy are at work, placing situations and people in your life for you to come around to His wonderful and perfect design for you.

Men and women may interpret that same-sex marriage is fine. However, same-sex marriage is not in accordance with the Word of God, no matter how many professionals deem it to be okay or how many judges grant legality to same-sex marriage.

Same sex marriage is yet another deception and diversion the Master Deceiver is using to counterfeit God's design for marriage and family.

However, God gives us the free will to choose for ourselves. Our free will can choose to love God and His Word freely and wholeheartedly.


Disobedience and sin have a cause and effect- the effect upon a person who willfully sins leads them further and further from God, making them more prideful and foolish, causing them to be unfit to worship God and left without hope. 


  The Truth was given for our benefit but the Truth keeps being ignored and shanghaied
                                                for  something counter to the Truth.   

         Sin blinds the eyes & hardens the heart to a path destined to unpleasantness.

                                                    Sin is disobedience against God.

                                        A sinful lifestyle is willful defiance against God. 


Because of His love, He allows each person their choice and power to choose their destination.

One must choose wisely because there is no way whatsoever anyone can debate God on His Word which prevails upon every matter of His creation.

Saturday, January 5, 2019

Suicide, Suffering, Sin and Jesus

I think I speak for most when I say the subject of death isn't a normal discussion topic.
However, if you or someone close to you are facing a serious, challenging health condition
with a grim prognosis, what does a person think or do?
Would one obsess about death or focus on living to make the most of every day and moment of life?




These are tough questions when you know your days are short numbered.
It's not easy simultaneously focusing your thoughts on dying and living.
Nor is it easy dwelling on the subject of death when you're enjoying health.

I've not been in the shoes of anyone lingering on thoughts of ending one's life.
But, I believe a person can act on ending their life without planning the act.
A sudden change of events can cause a person to taking immediate and drastic actions to end their life without considering the long-term effects on the one's they abruptly leave. As I've already mentioned, I do not have the thought processes of a person in a desperate situation or dilemma.

My first experience of knowing about a person ending their life really got my attention and made me ponder deeply about this. I was a teenager when I heard the news that the woman who lived next door had killed herself. I'm certain her husband and daughter were shocked and devastated. What could have happened to bring her to want or need to do such a thing?

Whenever I hear of someone committing suicide, I still have the same questions.

Much goes on on the inside of a person that is not immediately revealed.
Many things will never be revealed and many questions will go unanswered.


Fame and financial prosperity can't shield anyone from all the problems/ills/challenges one may encounter. 

Two examples here-

Robin Williams- former actor and comedian
He was funny, talented comedian and actor, adored by his family and millions of fans. I even remember of him communicating though sign language with a Koko, the gorilla.

Mr. William's wife says Robin was suffering from more than one brain disorder which were not going to improve.

No one wants so suffer from a disorder of any sort-it can be devastating and life changing.
We were all shocked when we heard the news that Robin Williams ended his life.


Rick Genest (Zombie Boy)-body-tattooed model
Rick was diagnosed with a brain tumor when he was 15. From reading about him he became obsessed with macabre. Insect and skeletal tattoos covered nearly his entire body, including his skull and face. Could looking at his reflection in the mirror have had an effect on his self-image and mindset?
Could the ill effects of having had a brain tumor still affected Rick. I couldn't find any definite reason or reasons why he committed suicide when he was in his 20's.
Click here to see his tattoos covered by a concealer.



We aren't privy to everything about a person-their heart, their soul, nor their motives to gain insight why they chose to end their lives.
Neither riches or fame are proven to insulate a person from whatever may cause thoughts to end one's life.
Thoughts playing in one's mind can be so convincing and lead one into taking action steps within moments.

Please, please, please immediately seek professional help (call 911) if you ever have thoughts of ending your life. You are needed and your life is precious and very valuable.
Each of us should be reminded of this from time to time.
Each and every life is very valuable, needed and worth living to the fullest.

And, there are some faced with a choice of life or death- having to make a serious choice to end their baby's life or let it live.
My recommendation is decide to place life in the hands of the one who created life.

There are many other examples to write on this controversial and complex subject, but I'm left pondering situations and causes to why some might want to end their life-
Chronic, debilitating pain
Depression
Poverty
Divorce
Physical disfigurement
Feeling unloved or abandoned
Incarceration for life
Public humiliation
Shame
Guilt
Loss of a dear, loved one
Hopeless
No purpose or fulfilling goal to pursue
                                                                                                                                                                    Many have suffered but were able to recover from the above heart-jerking agony to enjoy fulfilling lives once again or for the first time.
When you can't get from under the heaviness that's stealing your joy, seek help so you can start on the journey toward better days.

One thing for sure.
Our Lord and Savior took the heavy load of a world of sin upon His shoulders.
He took it all and He suffered horribly, publicly, and bled profusely.
He did not deserve any of the suffering or torture that he endured.
Jesus suffered while taking the suffering He did not deserve. He did it for you and me.
He suffered so any suffering we endure in this life will one day end, and we will experience an eternity of glory beyond our most extreme imagination anyone could ever imagine.
For believers, the best is yet to come.

Read the testimony at the end here-a persona's suffering was seen as a blessing.

I believe suffering has it's place.
In suffering we get a taste of what Jesus went through for us.
Our hope is this suffering is temporary, because one day we'll join Him in glory.
Our life here is just a vapor. Eternity is forever.
With that in mind, that's why we are to share the good news with everyone.
Whatever is afflicting your body and/or mind will not continue forever.
Yes, years ago when I was going though a time when I could not see how I was going to survive, I had a momentary thought of ending it all, but a small voice told me, "Hang on, just hang on. Jesus loves you unconditionally and forever."


Suffering isn't what anyone pines to experience.
But the Lord can use even suffering for a better tomorrow for you and I.
There is hope, a future and life in and through Jesus, The VICTOR over spiritual death.
There is life everlasting through Jesus, the Christ, the Messiah.


There may be suffering for a while, but it can't compare to the great glory that awaits those who trust in the Lord.


Action steps-
-Believe Jesus is the Son of God. 
-Ask Him (Jesus) to save you from the penalty of your sins.
-Invite Him into your heart and your life. 
-Thank and praise Him for having bore the penalty of your sins, thus saving you from spiritual 
  death.
-Repent of your sins. 
-Make it your passion to live a life pleasing to Him. 
- Meet with other believers, read and mediate upon the Word to grow spiritually in the Lord and deepen your relationship with the Lord.

Jesus is to be trusted and believed
Believers aren't perfect but their sins are forgiven and they are permanently secure in the Lord.  
So, welcome into the family of God as one of His precious adopted children, and heir to His Kingdom. 
Your quickened spirit shall never die because it is alive with the Son of God.